MY HUSBAND DEMANDED A THIRD CHILD

For twelve years, I had done everything rightโ€”or so I thought. I was the perfect wife, the perfect mother, the perfect housekeeper. My husband, Daniel, liked to remind me how lucky I was. After all, he was the provider, the man of the house. He made the money, put food on the table, and in return, he expected a clean home, warm meals, and well-behaved children who admired him from a safe distance.

Our two daughters, Emma (10) and Lily (5), adored me. I was their everythingโ€”their comfort when they had nightmares, their nurse when they were sick, their teacher, their playmate. Meanwhile, Daniel saw himself as the king of the castle. He wasnโ€™t abusiveโ€”at least, not physicallyโ€”but his neglect was something I had learned to live with.

Until he started talking about a third child.

โ€œI want a boy this time,โ€ he declared over dinner one evening.

I nearly choked on my food. โ€œA what?โ€

โ€œA son. Someone to carry my name.โ€

I wiped my mouth and set my fork down. โ€œDaniel, weโ€™ve talked about this. I canโ€™t do it. Iโ€™m already raising two kids by myself. You donโ€™t help, and Iโ€”โ€

โ€œI provide. Thatโ€™s my role.โ€ His voice was firm, final.

โ€œAnd mine is to be a servant?โ€ I snapped. โ€œIโ€™m exhausted, Daniel. I work part-time, I do all the housework, and I raise our kids alone while you come home, sit on the couch, and act like a guest in your own home.โ€

His face darkened, but I didnโ€™t stop. Not this time.

โ€œOur daughters barely know you because youโ€™re either absent or grumpy. And now you want me to have another baby? For what? So you can ignore that one too?โ€

He stood up so suddenly his chair scraped against the floor. โ€œI canโ€™t believe how ungrateful you are,โ€ he spat. โ€œDo you even love me?โ€

โ€œOf course, I do,โ€ I sighed. โ€œBut love isnโ€™t just about giving you what you want. Itโ€™s about partnership. And I feel like Iโ€™m in this alone.โ€

He stormed off to his motherโ€™s house that night. I thought that would be the end of it. Maybe he would come home, sulk for a few days, and then drop the subject. But the next day, he returned with a different energy.

โ€œYou donโ€™t love me,โ€ he said coldly. โ€œIf you did, youโ€™d want to give me a son. But you only care about yourself. Iโ€™ve made my decisionโ€”you need to leave.โ€

I blinked, my stomach dropping. โ€œWhat?โ€

โ€œI want a wife who respects me. You obviously donโ€™t. Pack your things and go.โ€

For a moment, I just stood there, numb. Then, I turned and walked upstairs. If he wanted me gone, fine. I wouldnโ€™t argue. I packed my essentials, took my time, then went downstairs. He was standing by the front door, arms crossed, waiting for me like a king exiling a peasant.

As I reached the door, I turned to him, my expression unreadable. Then, I spoke one sentence.

โ€œGood luck raising the girls by yourself.โ€

His face turned pale. โ€œWhat?โ€

I stepped outside, gripping my bags. โ€œYou wanted me out, Daniel. Fine. But Iโ€™m leaving our daughters to you. So, tell meโ€”are you really prepared to wake up in the middle of the night when they have fevers? Cook their meals? Help them with homework? Take them to school? Be their father, the provider?โ€

I watched the horror dawn in his eyes as reality settled in.

โ€œIโ€”wait, thatโ€™s not what I meant,โ€ he stammered.

โ€œOh, I know exactly what you meant,โ€ I said. โ€œYou thought you could kick me out and keep the life I built for you. But thatโ€™s not how this works, Daniel. If youโ€™re such a great provider, then provide. Be the father they need.โ€

His mouth opened and closed like a fish gasping for air.

I shook my head. โ€œYou canโ€™t do it, can you? Because deep down, you knowโ€”youโ€™re not a real father. Youโ€™re just a man who lives in the same house as his kids.โ€

He tried to backtrack. โ€œListen, maybe we should talk about thisโ€”โ€

โ€œNo.โ€ My voice was steady, calm. โ€œYou already made your choice.โ€

And with that, I walked away.

The next few days were a whirlwind. I stayed with a friend while I contacted a lawyer. Daniel begged me to come back, promising he didnโ€™t mean it, that he had spoken out of anger. But I had made my decision, too.

I filed for divorce.

The moment the papers were served, his tough-guy act crumbled. He wasnโ€™t the one calling the shots anymore, and he knew it. I had spent twelve years carrying our family. Now, it was time for him to stand on his own.

In the end, I got full custody of our daughters, the house, and child support. He fought, but the court saw what I sawโ€”a man who had been a father in name only.

Today, I live in peace. My girls are happy, and I am finally free. And Daniel? He still calls, still tries to guilt me, but it doesnโ€™t work anymore. Because the truth is, he never wanted a third child.

He just wanted more control.